Details:

Date: Friday 25th September – Saturday 3rd October

Retreat Leader: Ven Mary Reavey

Requirements: Everyone is welcome

Cost: Generosity ModelDonation only (by clicking the ‘Donate Here’ button below). Land of Joy provides: All meals, accommodation, workshops, materials and good firewood for soulful nights.

Format: Onsite only / Retreat begins: 7pm on the 25th September / Retreat ends: with lunch on 3rd October

Recommended arrival: 3pm – 5pm on the 3rd July to join for supper and get settled into the space

Accommodation: Land of Joy wishes for everyone who visits the centre to feel welcome, accepted, safe and secure. Our accommodation options are very limited, with mostly single-sex shared accommodation and a very limited number of single rooms. Single accommodation can therefore only be offered on a priority basis. Please read the relevant sections of the booking form carefully.

About the Retreat

Shamatha is the development of attention which enables us to focus our attention on an object without agitation or dullness, eventually reaching the clear mind of. Shamatha (calm abiding) is the clear mind that provides us with the focus we need to positively transform our minds for ourselves and others. We all need to start where we are so no matter what our level of meditation might be, you will find benefit from training your attention.

Shamatha provides the clarity and focus needed to:

  • uproot negative habits,
  • cultivate bodhicitta (the mind of awakening),
  • open the door to insight into the nature of reality, and
  • transform our relationship with ourselves and the world around us.

As B. Alan Wallace describes, training in shamatha allows us to radically shift the way we experience life.

What Will be Offered?

During this retreat you will be guided step by step through the practice of shamatha in a supportive and structured way. The programme includes:

  • Teachings on the stages of shamatha and their application in daily practice
  • Many short (24-minute) meditation sessions to steadily train attention
  • Opportunities for reflection, Q&A, and group discussion
  • Guidance based on B. Alan Wallace’s book The Attention Revolution — participants are encouraged to review or bring a copy

The retreat will be led by Ven. Mary, who has trained extensively with Lama Alan Wallace, including long retreats and a one-year solitary retreat on Holy Island under his guidance.

Who is This For?

This retreat is suitable for anyone interested in cultivating a stable and clear mind through the practice of shamatha. It is designed to be accessible to people at all levels of experience, whether you are just beginning or already have an established meditation practice.
It may be particularly meaningful for those who are:

  • New to meditation, looking for structured guidance to learn how to focus attention and calm the mind.
  • Practitioners seeking depth, wishing to stabilise and strengthen an existing practice with step-by-step techniques.
  • Those who are curious about use shamatha as a foundation for compassion and insight, developing a steady mind that allows kindness, clarity, and understanding to flow into both meditation and everyday life.
  • Interested in supportive community, wanting to learn alongside others and share insights in a respectful, encouraging environment.

Why Attend?

Shamatha offers a way to stabilise attention, cultivate calm, and explore the mind with clarity. This retreat provides guidance and a supportive environment for both newcomers and those with prior practice

  • Try out practical meditation methods
  • Cultivate calm and focus
  • Explore shamatha as a base for compassion and insight
  • Practice in community,
  • Step away from distractions, enjoying the peaceful surroundings of Land of Joy to focus and reflect.
  • As the focus of this retreat is meditation, it isn’t recommended for those experiencing mental health difficulties.

This retreat is a chance to begin exploring shamatha, deepen existing practice, and see what works for you — progress comes through engagement, curiosity, and gentle effort.

Retreat Boundaries

To help create the best conditions for meditation practice, this retreat will be held within a supportive framework:

  • Silence – Silence will be observed outside of group sessions during some periods of the day to encourage calm and inward focus.
  • Technology-free space – You will be encouraged to switch off phones, laptops and other devices for the duration of the retreat, except for reading texts and other dharma related material.
  • Respecting the schedule – Participants are asked to attend all sessions on time, as consistency supports both personal practice and the group environment.
  • Mindful living – Meals and daily activities will be approached with awareness, becoming part of the retreat practice itself.

These boundaries are not restrictions but supports — creating a safe, focused space in which the mind can settle and deepen.

About Ven Mary Reavey

Born in Dundee, Scotland, Ven Mary was a staff nurse when she first encountered Buddhism at the Foundation for the Preservation of the Mahayana Tradition’s mother monastery – Kopan – in Nepal in 1978. It was her love of adventure and trekking that led her to Kopan. Ven Mary attended a month-long course taught by Lama Yeshe and Lama Zopa who emphasised the importance of meditation and taking complete responsibility for your own actions and their effects.

In 2001 Ven Mary took ordination as a nun with Lama Zopa Rinpoche, then until 2012 taught meditation and Buddhist philosophy at Jamyang Buddhist Centre Leeds, Buddhist centres in Preston, Liverpool and at Armley Prison, Dumfries Prison, Leeds General Infirmary, St James’ Hospital and Wheatfields Hospice where she held regular meditation sessions. Ven Mary went on to take full Bikshuni ordination in 2015.

Over years Ven Mary has undertaken and led many meditation retreats. She completed a one year solitary retreat in 2014 and completes a three month personal retreat each year. She continues to regularly teach at Land of Joy, Jamyang Buddhist Centre Leeds, Jamyang Liverpool and in York.

A Way to Say Thank You

To Land of Joy…

Our generosity model means we do not charge for any teachings, accommodation or food. We are therefore 100% dependant on donations to help us cover our £90,000 a year running costs.

You are therefore invited to give what you can as a thank you for the organisation and hosting of the retreat, including the food and accommodation provided if you stayed onsite.

You may also like to make a regular contribution to the centre by becoming a Branch of Joy. This kind of support gifts us a steady and ongoing income, which in turn provides the confidence and means for us to continue to flourish for many years to come.

Everything given will ensure Land of Joy continues to be offered as a precious place for retreat.

To The Teacher…

Teachers and retreat leaders practice generosity by freely offering their time to Land of Joy. We cover their travel expenses but do not pay them for the teachings they give.

You are therefore invited to make an offering to the teacher as a thank you for the time and knowledge they share.

To The Volunteers…

Our retreats are supported by our wonderful team of volunteers, some of whom you will meet during your time at the centre. Those who live onsite offer their time, expertise and dedication in return for food and accommodation. They do not receive a wage or stipend. Unfortunately, we are only able to accept offerings for them in cash, so if you would like to thank them for their service, please do so by bringing cash with you to the centre and placing it in the volunteer collection pot.